Tag Archives: Fr Ron Bennett

The Cathedral Connection 21 July 2019

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The Family at Bethany

Today’s gospel is from Luke, but it is important to see it in relation to two incidents involving Mary, Martha and Lazarus in John’s Gospel.

In today’s gospel (Luke 10: 38-42) Martha welcomes Jesus in her home. She then prepares a meal. Mary sits at Jesus’s feet, listening. Lazarus is not mentioned, but could possibly be there, observing the situation. Jesus commends Mary’s contemplative nature and gently chides Martha on her ‘worrying about many things’.

In John 11, Martha and Mary send a message to Jesus that Lazarus is ill.  It is Martha only that goes to meet Jesus and gently suggests he could have prevented Lazarus’ death, but adds  ‘‘.. even now, whatever you ask of God he will grant you.’  What faith. They talk and Martha acknowledges Jesus as ‘the resurrection and the life.’ Even greater faith.  Mary, the contemplative, only comes later, when Jesus calls her.  Lazarus, being dead is not too involved until he is resurrected!

In John 12:1-11, there is a meal at the home of Simon the Leper.  It is said that Lazarus is there, and that Martha waited on Jesus.  Mary, the contemplative, pours costly ointment over Jesus’ feet. She senses Jesus’ approaching death and anoints his body in preparation.

All three are remarkable people, ‘in tune’ with Jesus and his message. They can be models for us, as we seek to do the same.

Fr Ron

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The Cathedral Connection 23 June 2019

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First Communion Day

I am sure we all remember our First Communion Day. I remember it in a way different to most. I woke up, rushed into mum and dad’s bedroom, only to find dad alone in the bed. ‘Where’s mum?’ I asked. Unknown to me, it had been a busy night in the Bennett household. My mother had gone to the hospital during the night and, wow, I had a baby sister, Kathryn, born just a few hours earlier! My father, not a Catholic at that stage, took over the mothership, got me dressed in new clothes, and took my brother and myself to Mass, and my First Communion.

The rest is a bit of a blur. But I do remember receiving the host on my tongue at the altar rail. Of course, I did not realize the full significance of that central moment, around which all else was periphery.

There was another memory of that day. During the Communion breakfast, an auntie bent over me and encouraged me to eat up. Many years later, I found out that she was a rather poor person, and used to have fish and chips for lunch, and save some for her evening meal. Yet here she was encouraging me to ‘eat up!’

Memories, memories. Our faith is full of memories. Today we celebrate many of our younger parishioners making their First Communion. Like me, they will not completely understand this moment. But we do hope they remember it. We pray that they will come to understand it more and more.  That the Eucharist will always be ‘food for the journey’ and
a meal that they cannot stay away from.

Fr Ron
Moderator, Cathedral Parish.

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The Cathedral Connection 19 May 2019

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Leaving a Legacy

 I have just been reading a book, “With the End in Mind,”  by Kathryn Mannix. It’s about the hospice movement and is subtitled ‘Dying, Death and Wisdom in an Age of Denial.’  Only when I finished it did I realize that yesterday was the Mary Potter Street Day Appeal. How appropriate.

It’s a powerful book on many levels.  We know of course that death is never an end, but is an important stage on the journey of life.  The book (and the hospice movement), shows us how to approach death, not with trepidation but with opening, clarity and understanding.

One of the themes of the book was about leaving a legacy.  What would I like to be remembered by? If I had the opportunity, what would my final words of advice be to those I leave behind?  What gift could I leave that others would appreciate?

In today’s Gospel, Jesus, in his darkest hour, talks of legacy, gift, what he is leaving for others to have.  It is like his last will and testament. His final, parting words. Do this and you will live!

I give you a new commandment: love one another. As I have loved you, so you also should love one another. This is how all will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”

We are called to be great lovers. But we cannot do this unless we are touched by God’s love. We can only radiate what we have received.

The journey of life is really about becoming the person God wants us to be. We can become more and more selfish or more and more selfless. Each moment, each day we make decisions that move us in one direction or the other.

Fr Ron

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The Cathedral Connection 21 April 2019

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Easter Sunday

It took time for those who first experienced the presence of the Risen Jesus among them to find the words to describe it – and even the faith to recognise him. They felt fear and incredulity before recognition fully dawned, the light became stronger and the sunrise of recognition broke over them. It is the same for us.

There are many things in life’s mystery of which this can be said. But nothing of which it is as true as the Resurrection. The Risen Lord enters our life without making a noise. He walks beside us without taking up space. He gives us all of his time without asking anything in return. He is at the centre of everything without forcing our attention. He is invisibly visible.

He is a new way of being, a new way of living. He gives our lives hope and meaning, a purpose in life.  He makes the impossible possible. We are never alone and never will be. He is always with us. We just need the faith to see.

He surprises us.
He makes death transparent and life radiant.
Lent has launched us.
Easter is everywhere.
We are an Easter people and Alleluia is our song.  
(adapted from words of Laurence Freeman, OSB).

Fr Ron

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The Cathedral Connection 17 March 2019

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Prayer – Being in the Presence of Love

Today’s Gospel passage – the Transfiguration – would have been a ‘moment to be treasured’ for Peter, James and John. No wonder Peter wanted to prolong the moment – “let us build 3 tents…” He didn’t want the moment to end. Prayer is that meeting place with God. Our Catholic tradition has a richness of ways of encountering God in prayer. What they have in common is that they join in the prayer of Jesus to the Father. All prayer is through, with and in Jesus.

This Lent can be a good time to look at our prayer life. I would like to mention 2 forms of prayer that you may have heard mentioned recently.

Lectio Divina: The Latin phrase “lectio divina” means “divine reading.” It is a way of praying with the Scriptures. As one reads and invites the Word to become a transforming lens that brings the events of daily living into focus, one can come to live more deeply and find the presence of God more readily in the events of each day. The method follows four steps: lectio (reading), meditatio (meditation), contemplatio (contemplation), and oratio (prayer).

Meditation: Whereas most forms of prayer involve words and song, either written, memorized, or spontaneous, meditative prayer concentrates on just ‘being in God’s presence.’ Meditative Prayer began in the earliest centuries of the Church, when men and women went into the Desert to find God. Cassian went to meet them with them. He asked them ‘What is prayer and how do your pray?’ The answer he received was simple and profound. Go to a quiet place and spend time with God. Take a word or a phrase, and gently say it over and over. When distractions come, return to your word. Cassian wrote about what he had been taught.

St Benedict, who began the monastic tradition, knew Cassian’s writing, and used it in his directions for his monks. Through the centuries, the practice of meditation continued through monasteries and convents. Many are rediscovering meditation and Lectio Divina as wonderful forms of prayer, seeing them indeed as a “moments to be treasured.”

Fr Ron

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