The Cathedral Connection 22 September 2019

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We are constantly told that it is very difficult to change our habits and the natural way that we react and behave.

Dostoevsky wrote:
‘The second part of half of a person’s life is usually made up of the habits acquired during the first part.’

Now that is quite a challenging thought. A profound story to illustrate this.
‘Once a holy man was instructing his disciples as they walked through a forest. He pointed to a small oak sapling and asked one of his disciples to pull it out. The disciple did so with one hand. Then the Holy Man pointed to another oak sapling, a little bigger than the first and asked the disciple to pull that one out too. The disciple had to use both hands this time. The Holy Man pointed to yet another sapling much bigger and asked the disciple to pull it out. This time he could only pull it out with the help of all the other disciples. Finally, the Holy Man pointed to an even bigger oak tree and asked his disciples to pull it out. Of course, they were unable to do so.

The Holy Man concluded, ‘That’s how it is with passions and habits. In the beginning, before they have sunk deep roots, it is easy to eradicate them. But if we allow them to sink deep roots, it becomes virtually impossible to rid ourselves of them.’

While the story shows the danger of forming bad habits it also shows the importance of forming good habits. Just as dishonesty can become a way of life so can honesty. Honesty can become habitual, spontaneous, second nature in our lives.

Flor McCarthy writes,
The real reward for a good deed is that it makes the next good deed easier. Every little action of the common day makes or unmakes character.’

With every blessing
Fr Doug

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